Most times it is hard to blame ourselves when things do not go as expected. We find it easier to look for excuses. We like to blame other people.
Just listen to people blame their parents for not being supportive enough, or not giving them a good education. Listen to people blame their spouses for lost dreams.
Listen to yourself complain about how things could have been better if not for……
And then sometimes we just have to face the truth.
When things have gone wrong, you have also participated. Whether you actively participated or passively looked on.
There is so much within your control. There is so much you can do even with very little resources. There is always something you can do.
I tell you, it is time to get yourself out of that small prohibitive corner you have put yourself into. Well, that little corner I have also put myself into.